But what if it doesn't have to be that way? We have a unique opportunity at Christmas to create great family memories and lead our families in growing closer to Jesus. And let's face it: Our kids grow up way to fast.
So here are some tips for dads to make the most of the holiday season for their families:
- Check your Cheer - Dad's, don't let the stress and spending of the holidays rob you of your Christmas cheer. Be joyful. Be hopeful. You're family takes their cues from you.
- Model Generosity - The holidays are a great time to teach your family about giving and generosity. Who are you planning to adopt, bless, and serve this holiday season?
- Dive In To Decorations - We need to help our wives with decorating the house. We need to make it a family affair. We need to take time to drive around and look at Christmas lights with the family. Embrace the sights and sounds of Christmas and be sure your family is having the complete holiday experience.
- Make It About Jesus - It's easy for the message of Christmas to get lost in the hype. Dads need to be leading their families to remember that Christmas is all about Jesus. Dads need to be leading their families spiritually. How are you doing with this dad? (For a great Christmas Bible reading plan click here.)
- Plan A Christmas Calendar - I started planning a Christmas calendar a couple years ago and it made the holiday so much better for our family. Here are 4 things you can do to be successful with this dads:
- Make sure you're planning family time where memories will be made.
- Create time to build family traditions.
- Check out local events that can make the holidays fun for your family.
- Be wise about what you say yes to and what you say no to.
Dads, let's be intentional in making the most of Christmas for our families this year. Let's lead well. Let's model the Christmas spirit for our children & not miss out on a great opportunity to build memories that can last a lifetime!